I’m guilty: I’m an Elitist Gifter. At least, I have been in the past. I just think whatever thing I’ve been using, or food I’ve been eating, or book I’ve been reading has been so gosh-danged fabulous I just *HAVE* to pass it along. My very own version of Oprah’s Favorite Things, if you will, but with less hysteria and sobbing. Well, maybe some sobbing—green gifts aren’t always appreciated.
Many of my eco-conscious friends jump at the chance to pay their green knowledge forward with a gift that nudges the receiver into a more enviro-friendly lifestyle. But choose wisely, dear ones. A false move might send your recipient flying back to their petroleum-based lifestyle with the vigor of 1,000 Oprah fans who’ve just found out they”ve won an electric toothbrush. You don’t want anyone passin’ out on ya.
The Worst Green Gifts for Eco-Newbs
1. Hippy-Flavored Baked Goods
Maybe you think your flax-chia-seaweed-oat clusters are TO DIE FOR, but I guarantee those bad boys will be making a “‘swish” into the garbage as soon as you leave. Holidays are for indulgence and celebration, even I admit that. If you must gift baked goods, stick to organic, but traditional, ingredients.
2. Your Favorite Books About Green Living
Because nothing says “‘I find your life inferior to mine” than a slew of reading on how they pretty much suck at something.
3. Homemade Sugar Scrubs, Lotions, and the like
Unless you’re a soapmaker or a chemist, leave the lotions and potions to the professionals.
Making homemade concoctions for yourself is one thing, but these beauty items can easily inhibit mold growth or simply go bad if not used right away or stored properly. A “‘Green Holiday” shouldn’t be a nod at a type of fungus.
4. Plants That Need Planting
“‘Hey friend, despite your lack of interest in gardening and your very full schedule, I invite you to research the intricacies of tending to this plant native to our wonderful slice of Earthly paradise!”
5. Menstrual Cups or Cloth Pads
Just don’t. As tempting as it may be to introduce a young lady to the Wonderful World of Catching Shed Uteri, she’s not going to think your gift of period supplies is heartfelt. It will be creepy. And, really, how’s that thank-you note going to read? “‘Dear Aunt Sunshine, I walked into the bathroom stall today and thought of you…” So, just no.
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